Hello friends! I will have the honor of having Stuart White guest-post to my blog with tips of how to get rid of writer’s block.
STARTING FRIDAY! We will begin a blog series of writing how-to’s for the stumped writer. This guy is great. He has helped me with several projects including a screenplay! He really knows his stuff and is a great guy too.
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Here is a link to his recent publication, a collection of short stories: We’ll Always Have Paris
Stuart is a professional and has traveled all over the world!
Here’s his bio…
Stuart White grew up in an English industrial town close
to Liverpool, birthplace of the Beatles. At the age of
twenty-two he was in London working on newspapers
including the Evening News, Daily Sketch and The Sun.
During his career he covered the ‘troubles’ in Northern
Ireland, the drug wars in Colombia, the refugee crisis in
Rwanda and Zaire, and was in Israel for the Scud missile
attacks on Tel Aviv during the First Gulf War.
He also covered the civil wars in Croatia and Bosnia,
flying twice into beleaguered Sarajevo. He has been shot
at, shelled, arrested frequently, beaten up, and was once
detained and deported from the African country of Malawi
when he attempted to report on the plight of the Asian
He has visited every continent in the world except
Antarctica, a total of ninety-two countries, many of them
on assignment. During his career he also spent two years
in Hong Kong where he was city editor of a daily
newspaper. He also lived for six months in the Persian
Gulf working for the Gulf Daily Mail and helping set up a
In 1994 he was made the America bureau chief of a
British national newspaper and spent ten years in Los
Angeles. During that time he covered among other stories
the Oklahoma City bombings, and 9/11 – for which with two
colleagues he drove non-stop the 2,800 miles from Los
Angeles to New York when no planes were flying.
During his time in LA he was a frequent contributor to
TV programmes like Hard Copy, Extra, and CNN. He has
appeared frequently on BBC TV and radio in England, and
in various documentaries.
He has written several newspaper and Magazine columns,
including, “USA Diary,” “Departures”, (for Business
Destinations magazine) and “One Man’s View,” the latter
in Hong Kong’s China Mail.
He studied screenwriting in Hollywood and gave up
journalism in 2005 to write full-time. He has a teenage
daughter and lives variously in London and the South of
Today, I was up and awake by 5:30am. On a Monday morning. This may be the norm for many people, but I have struggled to get to this point. I have three reasons that it was hard for me and three reasons that I’m struggling to do it anyway.
It’s super hard for me because:
1. I have a two year old whose sleep schedule is anything but regular. I volunteered to be the spotter for my son’s nighttime and super super early morning jaunts. I work part-time at this point in my life while my husband regularly works more than 50 hours per week. In order for my husband to get more rest, I take the crazy hours and get a nap when I can. This is the main reason I have struggled, for two years, to get into a morning routine.
2. I love to spend time with my night-owl husband. He is my best friend. He is more of a night owl. His “witching hour” for creativity (he’s also a writer) and life-in-general is somewhere between 10:30pm and 3am. I would (and have in the past) struggled to keep my eyes open at these times! My time is the morning. Going to bed on time in order to get up in the morning is difficult when there’s an “attractive nuisance” in the next room.
3. I Procrastinate. There is always something else that needs to be done. Some other reason for not sitting down to WRITE.
Three reasons I’m doing it anyway.
1. Personal Fulfillment. I love….to write. It’s been the juice that fuels my soul since I was very young. In fact, to remind myself of this, I still have the “book” I wrote when I was 7-ish years old. I’ll have to go pull out this embarrassing memento of my past and post a photo here. I remember reading Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë and The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck at the same age and thinking, this is what I want to do. It’s the reason I went to school for English and hung in there when I was reading page 300 THOUSAND of Madame Bovary at 2am and micro-sleeping every time I blinked my eyes. It’s the reason I took every creative writing course they offered for undergrads, submitted (and was published in) the campus creative writing publication and sighed enviously when I heard the graduate students for Creative Writing MFA talking about their latest projects. I would listen to them as we worked together at the campus writing center where I was also a tutor and got to un-gracefully knock knees under tables and bump elbows with those grad students. Not always by accident…
2. Financial Opportunity. Like anyone and everyone else in this world, I want a better life for my family. Even a small income from writing, if I could generate it, would make a big difference in when my husband will be able to retire. Which college my son will be able to attend. How much money I have to spend on fresh produce at the store. You get the picture.
3. Creating Catharsis for Others. The world that we live in demands self-control. A poker face. If you’re crying at your desk at work, you could get fired. Sure, there are so many arguments about why you might get a pass on this…but in the real world, if you show weakness, you will be eaten alive. So, shove down your emotions and get on with your day. Hold back the tears and the fear and work harder. Move faster. Focus on the job. So much gets pent up inside of us we’re on the verge of a national emotional breakdown. At least, that’s what it feels like to me. For me, I need an emotional release through art. Catharsis. Books, movies, artwork, music…they evoke emotions that draw from us what we hold back, down and inside. What corrodes us from the inside out. I have felt the sweet release of this magic emotional healing in so many stages of my life. When I was sad because my grandfather died. When I was stressed out because we were moving out of state. When I was feeling down because a friend blew me off. Through writing, I aspire to create for others a little of what I have been given.
There are so many reasons why I don’t have time to do this. But I’m going to write romance anyway.
What are you making time to do?
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I’m a self-published author of paranormal romance (among other things) and this is where I’m posting chapters of my books, one at a time. Like episodes or serials.
I like to think I’m following a Dickensian tradition. You know, like olde tyme newspaper publications. Or, I’m only posting as it’s being written
…or AM I?
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